Grief is Complicated

“I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.” - J.R.R. Tolkien, The Return of the King I first want to say that this is not a cry for help, nor is it me saying that those around me have failed me. It has been weighing on my mind as … Continue reading Grief is Complicated


The Good & The Bad Go Hand In Hand

Before I always thought good and bad were separate. You could have good moments and bad moments. I knew that having a bad moment or two didn't make a day bad, but there was some distinction between good and bad. With stillbirth everything that you know gets thrown out, tossed upside down, and muddled all … Continue reading The Good & The Bad Go Hand In Hand